Sunday, September 15, 2024

The Cost of Staying True: The Struggle Between Humanity and Conscience 🌿


"It doesn't matter how good a person you are; you will be seen as the worst person the moment you make your first mistake." 📜 This quote by Bukowski illustrates how superficial and variable societal judgments can be. However, the reality is that you don’t even need to make a mistake to be perceived as a bad person. Sometimes, simply saying something that doesn’t please interest groups, criticizing a wrong action, or issuing a warning can immediately label you as a bad person in the eyes of others.

The real issue is not whether you are seen as a bad person by others, but whether your own conscience is at peace. 💭 When you explain a mistake and point out the truths in your field, it may not sit well with interest groups. However, what truly matters is not remaining silent about those mistakes. When you take a stance that contradicts the interests of a community or workplace, encountering people's reactions is inevitable. But it is essential to remember how important that stance is for the public good and standing against wrongdoings. 🌱

Many of us are sometimes seen as rivals because thinking about public interests instead of personal benefits can be perceived as dangerous. But this is where the real struggle begins. Standing against wrongs, even if it appears bad from the outside, requires true courage, which comes from standing by your truths. Despite threats, slander, and even defamation, staying true and preserving one's intrinsic values is the greatest struggle. 💪

A person's moral reckoning comes first and foremost. In this reckoning, the most important question is not the fear of being portrayed as bad but whether you have prevented wrongdoing. Defending the truth, no matter the cost, is the essence of being human, isn’t it? 🌿 As my late professor often emphasized, this struggle is the fundamental element that makes us human; every truth requires a struggle and a price.

We frequently encounter this deep struggle in Bukowski's works: the complex structure of society and individuals reveals the inner conflicts of a person and their moral reckoning. Ibn Khaldun also emphasizes the importance of social interactions. Society constantly subjects individuals to an evaluation process, but the foremost struggle is the one with oneself.

In conclusion, the difficulty of being human lies not in others' judgments but in the responsibility we have toward our own conscience. 🌟 What matters is the ability to stand firm against wrongdoing and advocate for the truth. This, contrary to Bukowski's pessimistic view, aligns with Rumi's saying, "Look not at the body, but at the face of the soul." Keeping your soul clean is the true meaning of being human. 💫

References 📖
Bukowski, C. (1994). Pulp. New York: Black Sparrow Press.
Rumi. (2007). Masnavi (V. İzbudak, Trans.). Istanbul: MEB Publications.
Ibn Khaldun. (2005). Muqaddimah (M. Şükrü Hanioğlu, Trans.). Istanbul: İletişim Publications. Let me know if you need any further assistance!

The Power of Beliefs: Shaping a Life of Purpose


Albert Einstein once said, "It is not the skeleton and muscle system that keeps a person upright, but their beliefs and principles." This quote suggests that the health of our soul is as important as the health of our body. Imagine a tree; the deeper its roots, the more firmly it stands in the wind. Similarly, a person's beliefs and values are the roots that sustain them in life. 🌳

One day, a young dervish was walking through the forest. As he wandered among the trees, a particular tree caught his eye. This tree swayed in the wind but never fell. Curious, he asked, "Oh tree, why do you stand so strong?" The tree smiled and replied, "My roots are deep, and my beliefs are firm. No matter how fierce the wind, I stand tall." This story illustrates the importance of beliefs and principles in our lives.
In Mevlana's Masnavi, a similar idea is expressed. He states that a person's inner strength comes from their beliefs. Beliefs are a guiding light that keeps people standing during difficult times. Similarly, in Ibn Khaldun's Muqaddimah, it is emphasized that for a society to be strong, individuals must have firm beliefs. If a society loses its beliefs, it weakens and collapses (Ibn Khaldun, 2020).

This Sunday, let's take the opportunity to review and strengthen our beliefs. Let's remember that true strength lies not in our bodies but in our beliefs and principles. 🌼

References 📚

Einstein, A. (2021, August 4). Albert Einstein Quotes: 1–30 of 494 Quotes. QuotesCosmos. Retrieved from https://www.quotescosmos.com/.../Albert-Einstein-quotes...
Ibn Khaldun. (2020). Muqaddimah. (Trans. A. A. Çetin). İstanbul: Yeditepe Yayınevi.
Mevlana. (2006). Masnavi. (Trans. A. A. Çetin). İstanbul: İş Bankası Kültür Yayınları.

Wisdom in Humility: Finding Your True Place


"If you are the smartest person in the room, then you are in the wrong room."  📜 This quote prompts us to reflect. 🤔 However, if we constantly act with this mindset, we may feel that we are always in the wrong place. This thought can become unsettling. Believing we are always smarter than those around us can imply arrogance. 😶

Seeing ourselves as superior not only harms our relationships with others but also hinders our personal development. Intelligence is not just about knowledge; life lessons, experiences, and moral values are also essential components of being wise. If we keep moving to new places thinking, "I deserve better," we may never find our true place. 🌍

We can deepen this idea with Mevlana’s words: "True wisdom begins with not seeing oneself as superior to others." 🧠 If we leave an environment thinking we are the smartest person, we might miss the valuable lessons that place has to offer us. Sometimes, life’s greatest teachings come from unexpected places and people. 🎭
A person who constantly believes they are smarter is, in fact, closed to learning. This person misses out on valuable lessons from others and begins to see themselves at the center of everything. Yet, arrogance is the greatest obstacle to wisdom and learning. 🙅‍♂️

At this point, referring to Ibn Khaldun’s Mukaddime helps us better understand the development processes of individuals and societies. According to Ibn Khaldun, the strength and resilience of a society depend not only on the intelligence of its individuals but also on their moral values and mutual trust. 🌱 If we continuously think we are superior to those around us, it weakens not only our individual growth but also the unity and solidarity within society. Therefore, intelligence and wisdom can only advance a person and society if we avoid arrogance. 📉

Scientific conferences are a great example of this situation. You may be the most knowledgeable person in your field at a conference, but meeting people from different disciplines and perspectives can open new doors for you. If you miss these opportunities by always seeing yourself as superior, you halt your learning and development processes. True wisdom lies in being open to learning new things. 🌱✨

In conclusion, Confucius’s quote should be approached with balance. If we cannot grow in a certain place, seeking new opportunities may be appropriate. However, if we constantly see ourselves as superior, it only leads to arrogance, harming both ourselves and those around us. True wisdom begins with humility and openness to learning. 🎓 Being intelligent is not about being the best; it’s about always being ready to learn. 🌟

References 📖

Confucius. (2007). The Analects of Confucius (B. Watson, Trans.). New York: Columbia University Press.
Mevlana. (2007). Mesnevi (V. İzbudak, Çev.). İstanbul: MEB Yayınları.
Ibn Haldun. (2020). Mukaddime (A. A. Çetin, Çev.). İstanbul: Yeditepe Yayınevi.
Merritt, R. L., & Hanson, E. C. (1989). Science, Politics, and International Conferences: A Functional Analysis of the Moscow Political Science Congress. Boulder, Colorado: Lynne Rienner Publishers.